..._{[Iris pauses only for a second before she says.]} I loved my father, with all my heart. But...I wasn't very upset either when I was told we were to separate. Not at him at least. I was only upset at myself for failing him, just like I failed my mother...._{[She trails off.]}

W-What I meant to say is...I don't think feeling upset is so bad. If you were unhappy with your mother then...why should you feel upset?